Many people have been affected by cheating, whether it’s counseling a friend or relative who is worried about their relationship or allowing a speck of doubt to cross our minds about our relationship. Many couples have to go through some really hard patches, and their feelings for each other fluctuate depending on how safe they feel as a couple. So, how can you know if your boyfriend is having an affair if you suspect it? What are the symptoms that he’s having an affair? Here are three of the most prevalent signs, along with an explanation of what an innocent explanation might be and why it could be a sign of cheating.
Signs of Cheating
Do you want to know how to understand if your lover is being unfaithful? Dr. Becky Spelman, a psychologist & specialist discussed some of the most prevalent indicators of cheating and the reasons for them.
#1. Technology Changes
Technology has made communication simpler, which not only makes it easier to have an affair but also means there are more opportunities to be caught. You may find out that your spouse has an email account you were unaware of, or that he has two phone numbers and you only know one. Another obvious clue is when he begins accepting phone calls and walks out of the room, frequently claiming it’s for work, and then becoming defensive when you approach his phone.
What he might tell you: His supervisor has asked him to be on call when he’s at home, so he’s been given a work phone, and your boyfriend doesn’t want to disturb whatever you’re doing. Perhaps he’s planned something really special for you that he doesn’t want you to know about.
The real reason: His mistress is sending him texts or emails when you’re at home, and he’s attempting to conceal it. If you’re tempted to go through his phone, think twice. Are your suspicions worth breaching his trust?
#2. A New Man
His behavior: Has your partner started to watch new TV shows, listen to new music, or even buy new clothes or aftershave?
The innocent explanation: He could simply be updating his appearance and trying new things, or he could have discovered a new website or magazine that is providing him with new suggestions.
The guilty reason: A new lady often implies that he is exposed to new things (other than cheating) that you are not aware of.
#3. New Moves in Bed!
His behavior: When you’re in the depths of desire, your partner suddenly starts doing something new and beautiful. It could be a brand-new foreplay technique or position you’ve never heard of before.
The innocent explanation: He could have been browsing for advice and decided to try it out. Don’t be so harsh on him for attempting!
The guilty reason: It’s one of the more uncommon symptoms he’s cheating, but if it happens more than once and out of nowhere, it could be because someone in another bed is teaching him something new!