Many parents worry if their children will be well accepted by their peers once they start preschool and elementary school. New research shows that parenting styles can influence a child’s popularity. Is popularity a goal that’s worth pursuing? Psychologist Mitch Prinstein from the University of North Carolina divides popularity into two groups – status and likeability. The aim is to help a child get good social skills and feel included!
The First Parenting Tip – Try Not to Be Too Critical
Raising kids in an aggressive social environment can impact their future popularity. If teens intimidate friends by threatening to end the friendship or to spread rumors to get their way, it will make them less likable. This is a trait commonly picked up from home. Studies show that the warmer the parents spoke of their 5-year olds, the less aggressive the kids were at age 7. Being exposed to parenting role models who are altruistic, warm, and kind can help kids develop those same qualities.
Intervene Moderately in the Child’s Friendships
In the child’s earlier years, parenting includes facilitating socializing by arranging playdates and inviting kids to your child’s birthday party. Highlight to them the importance of inclusion. As kids grow, it’s important to gradually step back and allow them to manage their own social lives. Always remain available to talk about different social situations and experiences. Help them learn to problem-solve, manage their feelings, and introspect.
Discuss Popularity
One of the most important parenting tricks may be to talk openly with the child about the two different types of popularity. Explain that caring about status among their peers is something all kids worry about, but that status isn’t what will make them happiest. High-quality friendships are the thing to strive for. Understanding this can help most kids change the way they think about popularity. Explain that being cooperative, kind, inclusive, and pleasant to be around will generate likability.
F for Frittata: Meet Everyone’s Newest Favorite Dish
Frittata is a versatile dish – in ways more than one. Before diving into how it’s made; let’s first understand what a Frittata is. To put it simply, a Frittata is a quiche sans the crust. Savory in taste, a Frittata contains an assortment of vegetables, herbs, and a bit of cheese. This easy-to-make dish can be mastered in no time and serves as a hearty meal option. Apart from tasting good, this yellow-hued cheery dish is a perfect choice for your Instagram feed too. Here’s an easy way to make Frittata for yourself and your loved ones.
Laying the Foundation
First and foremost, you will require a base batter for Frittata comprising eggs, milk, garlic, salt, and pepper. Mix all the mentioned ingredients till they acquire a smooth runny consistency. Keep it aside. In a cast-iron skillet pan, toss few vegetables of your choice on a medium flame till they are tender.
Adding the Ingredients
Bring in the herbs and mix them with the vegetables for a bit. Now, carefully spread out the Frittata batter evenly so it covers the vegetables like a blanket. Rock the pan in a gentle motion from time to time so that the batter doesn’t stick out and is spread uniformly throughout. Add the grated cheese (again, your call!) as the part of next step.
The Final Steps
In a pre-heated oven, place the entire content for a good twenty-minute bake at around 400 degrees. Don’t forget to wear mittens while taking it out. Post that let it cool for a bit before slicing it down to the preferred piece size. Enjoy your creation and eat while it’s still warm. Pro Tip: You can also add seasonal vegetables and play around with the combination of cheese to experiment with its flavor pattern every single time.